Ask Misha
Having personal problems? Stressed out? Need advice? Then it is time to ask Misha! As with any advice column, Ask Misha is completely confidential and only here to help you. All advice will be positive, so do not be hesitant to submit your question. All responses will be posted on this page, so the use of an email address is not necessary. For your protection, please use a nickname relating to your question. Dear Misha,
I like this guy, my best friend is dating him, so i see him like everyday. Hes really nice to me and stuff like that. I know hes dating my friend, but still i really like him. What should i do????- My best friend's guy
Dear My best friend's guy,
This may be hard to do but you have to talk to your friend about it. Tell her about how you feel. I remember this happening to me once and I thought my friend would hate me but she ended up saying that it was ok. She asked me if I'm okay with her and the guy being together. If she does get mad though, tell her you can't help it because if you like someone, what can you really do about it? If she's a good friend she'll be okay with it and will maybe help you get through it. Your not a bad person. Theres just some things you shouldn't do. Make her boyfriend cheat on her for you. I know you wouldn't do that but sometimes, it just happens.- ♥ Misha
Dear Misha,
There is a guy I am totally crushing, because of his really caring and helpful character. The thing is both of us are quite shy, and though I've talked to this guy nearly everyday for half a year on MSN, we have never talked in real life. I know I should make the first move, but I'm too scared. Please help me Misha!- Sweaty Palms
Dear Sweaty Palms,
Don't worry. This happens to many other people so you're not alone. Well knowing someone on MSN is different from meeting them in real life. You can act however you want on MSN but in real life, you get to see this guys habits and attitude. So, I suggest that since you talk to him on MSN, start a conversation with him and ask him to hang out. Trust me, it's easier to say it on MSN than just going up to him and saying it. If he says no, that means he doesn't really have an interest in you. If he says yes, pick a date and take a walk. Then, you can find out if he's easy to talk to, and if you feel comfortable around him. If not, you're not meant to be. That's still okay. There are other guys out there for you!- ♥ Misha
Dear Misha,
This guy I have a crush on only emails me. I know he doesn't like me but I can't seem to get over him. HELP!!! - Lonely Summer
Dear Lonely Summer,
You see, this thing happens to a lot of people. I read in this magazine that this couple started dating by chatting online. They both went to the same school but never talked to eachother. Just emailed. Well, it turned out that they didn't even get to know each other THAT well. So, here's my advice. Chatting online seems fun and you get to know about that guy more but you don't know as much as you could if you actually tried talking to him. So the next time you get to talk to him, ask him to hang out. You'll get to know how he acts and his habits. Maybe by just talking to him and hanging out, he'll ask you out. You'll never know until you try and if it doesn't work out, theres plenty of guys out there waiting for a girl like you. Just you wait and see. - ♥ Misha
Dear Misha,
I'm really excited to go back to school, but I'm also really nervous because I'm afraid of what might happen. When school ended, it ended really bad. All the girls had all these disipline talks and the boys were just being bad. Everybody is going through all of these problems. How should I react when everything turns out wrong? - Defeated
Dear Defeated,
You should be excited for school. Everyone is. Theres a lot of trouble near my school and the thing is, it just happens. It happens to everyone. Never think you're alone because I bet many people in your school feel the same way. I once heard a quote saying " Fear can hold you back from so many wonderful things in life. So, I make myself do the things I'm afraid of. Worry Afterwards" That is something that I personally believe in. The only way to predict the future is to create it. So, don't worry about that kind of stuff because there will always be someone who feels the exact same way. Live your life at the fullest. These things happen so the only way to react is to try to stay calm. Talk to someone like a trustworthy friend, a teacher your close with. That will really help you. I hope this solves your problem. - ♥ Misha